SECOND DRAFT MARRIED AND SINGLE LİFE

                                                                                                              esra uzel 16.02.2014
                                                                                                               
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Thesis  statement:  There are many points to deal with differences of married and single life, but we can compare them in terms of free time, money, companionship.

BODY Paragraph 1:
   1,0: in terms of free time married and single life
   2,0: how single people spend their free time
   2,1: how married people spend their free time
   3,0: not knowing free time as a single
BODY Paragraph 2:
  1,0: in terms of money married and single life
  2,0: how the single earn and spend money
  2,1: quickly going money for the single
  3,0: versa situation for the married
  3,1: how money goes
  3,2: craving money which was in single life
  4,0: summary of situation.
BODY paragraph 3:
  1,0: in terms of companionship in married and single life
  2,0: what is the aim of single life
  2,1: not knowing importance of being family and companionship before marriage
  3,0: what do the married live for
  3,1: teaching companionship with marriage
  3,2: how the married solve their problems
  3,3: unlike the single how the married cope with any difficulties.
CONCLUSION:
there are many points that revealing the legitimacy of the saying “celibacy is a sultanate”. However, these points can’t cover up many good side of married life. To know both of them is necessary to live them.



                                            Married and Single Life
       “Celibacy is a sultanate” is a only saying that both married and single people support. This saying explains that married life and single life are different from each other. There are many points to deal with differences of married and single life, but we can compare them in terms of free time, money, companionship.
      Single people and married people’ life are different in point of free time. Single people spend their time surfing on the net, watching TV in company with core and popcorn with together family members or wandering without reasons with their  friends and so on. Unlike single people, married people spend their free time which is a little due to working by resting at their home, looking after their children or visiting their relatives. Unfortunately, single people don’t know the value of free time until they get married.
      Another distinguishing point for the married and single’ life is money matter. People who are single get allowance or earn their own salary, so they only spend it for their needs. Maybe it will be true to say that they make the money fly as quickly as possible. This situation is versa in married life. The bad side of the situation is that the money flies from their hands without noticing for house and children’s needs or debt. They crave the money which they spend in single life, but it is futile. To summarize, the money which people can’t find anything to spend in single life is exactly the same thing which they can’t find to spend in married life.
     The last distinguishing point for the married and single’ life is companionship. People live only for themselves in single life. They generally don’t know the importance of being family and meaning of companionship until they get married. On the other hand, married people live for each other, their children and family peace. Marriage teaches people companionship. Married people understand their problems and solve them with maturity coming from marriage. Unlike single life, married people cope with any difficulty without thinking self-interest. They do it only for family peace.
     For all you see, there are many points that revealing the legitimacy of the saying “celibacy is a sultanate”. However, these points can’t cover up many good sides of married life. To know both of them is necessary to experience them.